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#toxicmasculinity

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Die toten #frauen der letzten Tage ,die der #politik schnuppe sind, weil sie als Hetze nicht verwertbar sind:
Niedersachsen:
12. Mai, Varel, † 37 Jahre, öffentlich totgerast vom Ehemann
12. Mai, Nienburg, † 37 Jahre, öffentlich erstochen vom Ex
05. Mai, Goslar, † 40 Jahre, 4-fache Mutter, verbrannt vom Ehemann

Nordrhein-Westfalen:
07. Mai, Krefeld, † 23 Jahre, erstochen vom Kollegen, im Ladengeschäft
07. Mai, Dortmund, † 40 Jahre, obdachlos, im öffentlichen Raum umgebracht
03. Mai, Troisdorf, † 30 Jahre, erstochen vom Lebensgefährten.
#femizide #gewaltopfer #frauenhass #patriarchat @bmi #cdu #csu #vergewaltigung #männer #deutschland #toxicmasculinity
#petition

chng.it/WWCphSTHjM

Change.orgDiese Kampagne braucht dich jetztHerr Minister Dobrindt, setzen Sie die Istanbul-Konvention endlich um #saveXX

Wer es noch nicht getan hat. Schreibt euren Politiker*innen, damit sie sich für ein #afdverbotjetzt einsetzen. Es ist kein entweder oder. Gute Politik entblößt die Faschisten und nimmt ihnen Grundlage durch unterschiedlichste Lösungen wie u.a. sozialer Politik - z.B. Höherer #Mindestlohn, #Mietpreisbremse oder rückwärtsgang, Bildungsförderungen etc.
Aber ein #Verbotsverfahren anzustreben ist richtig und wichtig! Das geht gleichzeitig und arbeitet für eine starke #Demokratie. Egoistische Politik zur Selbstwertpolitur muss jetzt aufhören! #toxicmasculinity #faschismus

Okay, #Wadephul wünscht seiner Vorgängerin "ein bisschen Zeit, auch mit den beiden Töchtern was Neues zu entdecken". Und seine Frau, die für das Soziale und die Geschenke zuständig ist, hatte "diese hervorragende Idee – das hat sie bei uns in der Familie jetzt zu Weihnachten geschenkt". Wie viel #toxicMasculinity passt eigentlich in ein Geschenk?

focus.de/politik/deutschland/p

Clearly a case where #ToxicMasculinity has overtaken rational thought - I suspect whoever did this simply doesn't care they are likely to get 20+ years porridge - #stabbing someone in a #bank in broad daylight is almost certain to result in #arrest - there's #CCTV all over these places and has been for 50+ years! #UK #crime #Midlands #Derby

itv.com/news/central/2025-05-0

4 teenagers arrested after a #stabbing in #Cambridgeshire - this does look like a targeted attack, also the lads arrested came from areas some distance away where it would be difficult to get to without access to a car - its a warning how bad #ToxicMasculinity has become if they put all that effort into travelling just to commit this #crime (and these things often happen over trivial reasons)

itv.com/news/anglia/2025-05-04

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The "She Matters" mural in Hosier Lane, Melbourne - a mural that names the women who have been killed in attacks of gendered violence, has been vandalised.

The perpetrators painted "war on men" across the names and pictures of the women murdered.

We can't even have our grief.

I'm so tired of men.

My poll has concluded, and it has confirmed my suspicions - a lot of men (myself included) have not really been socialized to talk openly about their emotions.

This might be a generational thing - I grew up in 1980s Germany, and I think younger generations are getting better at this. It might also be a matter of education - while I have PhD, I am from a working class family.

But it definitely was, and is, a problem. The default assumption always was that men had to stand on their own, that men had to cope with anything life threw at them, that any man who could _not_ cope with things was weak and deserving of contempt - and the only "negative emotion" that was acceptable to show was anger and rage.

Which is messed up - if we are not free to talk about our emotions, then how are we supposed to work through them other than trial and error? I do know that it took me many years to work though my own issues.

I think this is a great contributor to #ToxicMasculinity . Don't get me wrong, none of this excuses the men who embrace it for their actions. They have full agency, and own their toxic behavior. But when you are taught that anger is the only negative emotion that you can publicly express, then embracing it can become very tempting.

#masculinity #GenderRole
mementomori.social/@juergen_hu

Memento moriJürgen Hubert (@juergen_hubert@mementomori.social)This article on #masculinity and talking about emotions got me thinking, and I am curious how men around here are socialized to talk about emotions. #feminism #GenderRole https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2025/04/christian-men-donald-trump-masculinity-crisis.html [ ] I am a man, and I was socialized to talk about my emotions with other men [ ] I am a man, and I was socialized to talk about my emotions with women [ ] I am a man, and I was NOT socialized to talk about my emotions with other men [ ] I am a man, and I was NOT socialized to talk about my emotions with women [ ] I am not a man, but I want to see the poll results
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@hart -das ist bei der derzeitigen Personalsituation eher kein Kompliment, sondern schon ein Hilfeschrei- aber #habeck wäre ein besserer #kanzler eines zivilisierteren, aufgeklärteren, progressiven #deutschland...
Die Zeiten sind jedoch andere:-(
#cdu #afd #merz #rechtslibertar #faschismus #patriarchat #rollback #hass #grune #klimawandel #besitzstandwahrer #gier #trump #männer #idiocracy #zivilisation #toxicmasculinity #weltzerstorer

#Building sites must have #toilets by law (if the ones in the houses are not suitable to use, maybe not yet plumbed in) - if the #builders are leaving #piss bottles around then it seems like its done as a deliberate "fuck you" to their employers and the end customers as they hate them and their jobs (likely linked to incel / manosphere behaviour) #construction #trades #ToxicMasculinity

bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx20xj

Snagger Chris Greenwood is wearing a checked shirt with a black fleece gilet over the top. The background is a wooden door and pale coloured painted wall.
BBC NewsProfessional snagger says food and urine left in new homesFinding snags in new-build homes is inevitable according to the National Federation of Builders.
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Analysis: MAGA's Wounded Masculinity

"The Cult of Trump is rooted in fascism's gender anxieties"

"The 'soldier male' is defined by a terror of libidinal & social fluidity, a desire for iron-fisted control over his corporeal self & the world around him, & a violent repudiation of anything associated with the feminine.

"Women in this view were a threat to masculine virtue".

~Klaus Theweleit

nilsgilman.substack.com/p/maga

#maga #genderism #patriarchy #fascism #uspol #trump #toxicmasculinity .